Look in the mirror

I tell my friend there are some easy fixes, I tell my girlfriend she needs to do this and that, and while I'm in the midst of giving all these otoher peopl eadvice, I start falling into the hole they're tryin gto dig themselves out of. Seems a little ridiculous if you ask me. I just don't know what to say anymore. I need inspiration and I'm not findiing it within myself. What are the thing sI would do if I had the willpower.. starting with the highest priority,
Make the website
Finish some books
Contact AIESEC people and leads
Contact Temp Service
Learn Chinese/Spanish/French
Create my Triad Chart
Learn Photoshop
Learn Piano
Practice handwriting
Interact with Family
Bike/Workout everyday
Become Flexible
Learn Seaman's knots
Learn how to woodcarve
Become MCSE certified

Some of these are everyday goals that aI would like to get done, and some of these are longterm, and as of yet unrealized or unrealizeable. I don not leave time for Halo 2 because I don't think that is a real goal, just an escapism type front. I don't know where teh willpower lies in me to get all these things done. Normally the thing that keeps me from it is a lack of knowledge and the idea that I may be doing something wrong or that I don't see results quick enough, and thats really not a good reason to give up on something